Choose Humility

CHILDKIND VALUE AND BEHAVIOUR 5

“I will show grace by acknowledging and valuing the strengths and areas for improvement in myself and others.”

Overview

Choosing humility involves recognising and valuing the strengths and areas for improvement in oneself and others. For early childhood practitioners, humility means being open to feedback, learning from mistakes, and acknowledging that every child and family has unique strengths. By practicing humility, practitioners create a collaborative and respectful environment where children and families feel empowered to contribute their own knowledge and experiences. Humility also fosters trust and respect between practitioners and families, which is essential for building strong partnerships. In a setting where children with disabilities or developmental delays are supported, humility helps practitioners remain open to learning new approaches and continually improving their practice.

Supporting Evidence

Humility is a key component of reflective practice and continuous improvement. Australian research by Gonski (2019) highlights how practitioners who adopt a humble mindset are more likely to engage in ongoing learning and professional development, ultimately leading to better outcomes for the children in their care. Humility encourages practitioners to view families as equal partners in the child’s development, creating a space for collaborative decision-making. Additionally, research by Collins (2017) shows that humility is essential in fostering respectful and empowering relationships with children and families, particularly when working with those from diverse cultural or developmental backgrounds. The Reimagine Australia Code of Ethics emphasises humility in Principle 1.5, which calls for practitioners to recognise and value the strengths and perspectives of both children and their families.

What this way of working might look like in practice:

  • Asking for feedback from a child’s family to improve how you tailor supports to the child’s needs.
  • Acknowledging your own limitations and seeking advice from colleagues or specialists to better support a child.
  • Encouraging families to share their expertise about their child, valuing their insights and experiences.

Alignment with Best Practice

BEST PRACTICE PRINCIPLES, CHILDKIND WAYS OF WORKING AND KEY COMPETENCIES

This value or behaviour supports the Best Practices below:

  • 12. Build on My Strengths (Enable Me): Practitioners demonstrate humility by recognising and valuing the strengths of children and families, acknowledging their abilities and contributions.
  • 5. Establish My Priorities with Me (Support Me): Humility is reflected when practitioners align their goals with those of children and families, listening to their priorities and perspectives.

This value or behaviour supports the Ways of Working below:

  • Learn and Grow: Humility is essential for continuous professional development and acknowledging areas for improvement.
  • Collaborate with Others: Acknowledging the value and strengths of others, practitioners work humbly with teams.
  • Centre Me and My Family: Practicing humility by listening to and valuing the family’s priorities and perspectives.
  • Be Responsible: Humility plays a role in taking accountability and acknowledging one’s limitations.

The value or behaviour suports the Key Competencies below:

  • 5.2 Research and Innovation: Practitioners approach research and innovation with humility, acknowledging that there is always more to learn and areas where practice can improve.
  • 8.1 Life-long Learning: Humility is shown through a commitment to life-long learning and acknowledging that growth is a continuous process.
  • 7.3 Referrals and Other Support: Practitioners show humility by recognising when other professionals are better suited to support the child and making appropriate referrals.
  • 4.1 Priority and Goal Setting: Setting goals collaboratively with families demonstrates humility, as practitioners recognise the importance of the family’s insights.

Practitioner Reflection Questions

Reflection questions are a valuable tool for practitioners, promoting self-awareness, critical thinking, continuous improvement, and stronger relationships in their work with children and families:

  1. How do I model humility in my interactions with colleagues, children, and families? 

  2. In what ways can I improve by asking for feedback from families or colleagues?

  3. How do I acknowledge and learn from my mistakes in a way that strengthens my practice?

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Humility is not thinking less of yourself; it’s thinking of yourself less.

ChildKind Documentation

Access more information on the ChildKind Best Practice Framework with its 10 Ways of Working, 30 Key Competencies and 8 supporting Values and Behaviours here: